

I'm Rebecca Zung, a U.S. News Best Lawyer in America, USA Today bestselling author, and creator of the SLAY Method and SLAY AI. Over 25 years as a trial attorney I have helped thousands of people build strategic leverage against narcissists and high-conflict opponents. This cheat sheet gives you the same documentation framework my clients use to build cases that win.
The result: you stop reacting and start controlling the narrative with organized, court-ready evidence.

Real leverage is not one smoking gun. It comes from the patterns that emerge when you document correctly. This cheat sheet shows you exactly what to look for and how to organize it so nothing gets missed.

The documentation you create is where the hidden leverage lives. When you organize it correctly, you save your attorney hours of prep time, and build the foundation for winning arguments.

This checklist tells you exactly what matters, how to organize it, and what your attorney actually needs — so you stop spinning your wheels and start building a case.


The specific categories of narcissistic behavior that courts care about — and how to capture them.

How to structure your documentation so your attorney can use it immediately not wade through chaos.

How to connect individual incidents into a narrative that exposes the real pattern of behavior.
Your power comes from turning their chaos into your clarity. Their lies, manipulation, and drama become patterns and patterns become leverage. When you organize their behavior into strategic summaries backed by proof, you create the kind of evidence that makes a narcissist panic and makes a judge pay attention. You are not just documenting. You are building a case.
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